Happiness in our lives is what we are all after- the “end goal”, so to speak. There is a great episode from my favorite podcast, The Ed Mylette Show, where Ed discusses having “Blissful Dissatisfaction”. (Oct 17, 2018 episode). He talks about how most people delay their happiness now and decide that when they reach a certain goal, hit a certain status, or make a certain amount of money, then they will be happy. Ed explains that our ultimate end goal is not simply happiness, but fulfillment, and in order for us to achieve that fulfillment we must learn how to be happy in our current situation while simultaneously striving for something more.
Let me tell you this…what I have learned is that wherever you are right now, is exactly where you are supposed to be. The reason is not always clear. And sometimes when you are going through a challenging time, it can really suck. But even when we’re struggling to figure things out, there is always a lesson to be learned and there is always some joy to be found. And it starts with being grateful for what we have.
So if you had the power to start each and every day by choosing to control your own happiness before the outside world starts to creep its way in, wouldn’t you want to use that power to your advantage? Of course you would. The beauty is, you do have that power.